You see, the problem with you guys is that unless you have the truth under your damn nose, you refuse to see it.
And that is because you’re more comfortable that way.
I know it.
I’ve been through it too.
But that’s why i’m here after all, TO ROAST YOU and question your intelligence, because the rumor that we think with our… well, with our dingus, it’s more truth than not at times.
…But that works against us when it comes to relationships & life.
Stay with me, i’m going to explain you a few things that now seem like ancient knowledge, that might change your life:
Now, when i say “stop looking” i don’t mean forever, mind you.
What i imply is that you must stop looking for it, actively.
Why? The reason is simple:
As a man you have other things that take priority over women.
And these things are ENORMOUSLY underlooked by the majority of men, because society wants you to believe that is “ok” to not have these things in check.
(And are far more important than women for your life, of course)
And that is bullshit, and also the reason why most of your relationships with women WILL fail.
Like your finances,
Your mental health,
These are just some examples, but are key.
Because you see, women are generally looking for a man who’s stable, who they can rely on- a pillar- so to speak.
How do you possibly think that they can be attracted (long-term) to a lazy ass mofo with no aspirations or goals, that spends his days scratching his ass smoking weed and drinking beer on the couch?
Nobody is attracted to worms.
Makes sense, right?
Now, you shouldn’t be doing this in the first place for getting women, but you should do it for yourself, to improve your situation.
To give the man a reason, a purpose! that’s how it should be.
And while you’re concentrated on all that goodness, women will naturally “flock” to you.
A (good) woman should be A COMPLEMENT, to a man’s life.
The beautiful missing piece,
The better-quality oil that makes the machine work better, even when the machine is working just fine by itself.
Not his focus!
We as men should avoid comfort, it makes us stagnant, makes us loose our “edge”.
As men we should be always prepared to act.
But don’t think we should not be able to lower our guard from time to time, we’re not machines.
We have emotions, we’re emotional beings as well- just *less*- when compared to a woman.
And that is when polarity comes into play.
As a man you want to be, most of the time, ready to face anything – but you’ll need comfort as well, even though you don’t need for it to be your state of being.
And a woman can provide all that.
Softness, tenderness, femininity… It’s all a balance.
And that’s exactly how it should be if you want women to be interested in you as a potential lifelong partner.
THEY are the one looking to find & provide comfort.
YOU, as a man, should be the strength.
So when a woman senses softness, weakness….in a man, it makes her waver. Those shouldn’t be masculine traits.
So, to wrap this all up.
Can you see my point on why you shouldn’t waste your time? how can you afford that when you have so many flaws to work on?
Trust me on this, when you have solved most of your problems you will be a much more appealing man from a woman’s perspective.
So please, stop wasting your time chasing relationships that YOU KNOW won’t go anywhere because of your personal lack of something.
Have a solid foundation on which to start meaningful things from, when a good woman shows up at your doorstep.