6 Proven Ways To Be Irresistible To Women

Let’s not fool ourselves gentlemen, if you’re a man, you want to do everything in your power to be attractive to the ladies and there’s nothing wrong with playing your hand in the most effective way when it comes to dating. That’s exactly why today I have for you: 6 Proven Ways To Be Irresistible To Women, let’s dissect them together.

6 ways to be irresistible to women

1) The Good ‘Ol Mysterious Man

One of the 10 ways to be irresistible to women is to be a bit like James Bond
Being like our loved Daniel Craig in the James Bond role, will surely help to make women curious, I mean just look at that confident grin.

I’m starting the list with this classic, because it’s one of the most quick and effective ways for women to get curious about you…but only if done right and without deception, let me expand on this: if you’re being mysterious just for the sake of doing so, women WILL pick up on it, they can smell a liar by miles away, so your air of uncertainty must be real, a part of who you are in order for them to be intrigued, acts won’t work.

So, for you to pull this off you must have that veil of charisma about you that says you have a lots of secrets to share but simply won’t do so, because well…you’re REALLY cool and mysterious, so if you’re a plain simpleton and a boring person overall this will not do. With that said, if your reasons to keep the mystery up are genuine, the girls will be all over you, trust me on this.

2)Be Good Lookinggood looking man

Now there are a few things you can do to improve your looks if genetic has not bestowed the best set of traits upon you, so don’t fret and see how you can improve your appearance but in general, keeping yourself well groomed and clean goes a long way and women will notice it, hence making you more sexy and kissable because you don’t smell like a nasty sock, and you look like you have a semblance of style and can dress good.

Not only that but doing so will set you apart from the rest of the guys who smell bad, have nasty teeth or simply just don’t take care of themselves.

3)Be Stronga strong man who lifts and has a strong personality is

It’s no secret that strength is very attractive to women, they gravitate towards strong men after all, both men who have a strong character and who are strong in the physical realm make a woman weak in the knees, so the objective here is to build yourself a chiseled body and develop a strong personality.

Do you think a woman abhors muscles and a man who knows what he’s doing and sets firm boundaries about what he accepts and what he doesn’t? think again.

And if you need help to get in shape and start building muscle, my amazing fitness guide is what you were searching for.

4)Make her work for your loveone of the ways to be irresistible to women is to make her work for you

Do you think a woman will care about some random ass dude that will promptly accept her and welcome her into his life without a second thought, when he just met her? fool, women don’t want this kind of man, because it’s not very desirable in their eyes and because it took NO EFFORT from their part whatsoever, they want a man who’s hard to conquer, a challenge so to speak, see it like this: who wants to skip all the levels and the hard work needed for getting that end-game equipment in a videogame? no one, because it would defeat the purpose of it all, and most of all it will forbid you of the satisfaction of having accomplished something, the same applies to a man’s heart in a woman perspective.

Reality is that women love to prove themselves to a man they deem “worthy” so they’ll gladly go out of their way to work in order for you to appreciate them so they’ll please you with things like: cooking for you, staying feminine and providing “softness”, making you little gifts and other cute girly things, and not only is this working in your favor, it’s also one of the beautiful dynamics of a genuine man-woman relationship.

5)Have Your Own Lifeman on a mountain

This shouldn’t even be on this list because it’s something you should already have, but not for everyone this aspect is obvious so I had to include it anyway, and of course this is something that would appeal to a woman, since it’s an overall appealing characteristic for either sexes to have something going on in your life.

This could be something as simple as going out with your buddies, taking time off the world to work out and increase your strength, or working towards that ambition of yours, whether it’s work or a passion project, making women understand that they’re not the central focus of your life and that you do have something to do on a daily basis it’s very attractive in their eyes because they can openly see you as someone who does something valuable with their time.

Very few (almost nonexistent) women like couch potatoes who spend their lives solely in a pleasurable way (ex: playing videogames all day, drinking, only partying etc…) remember, as a man you’re valuable in their eyes for WHO you are as a real man, and losing time without a direction gives you very little of what you should be as a person but as a man, most importantly.

6)Value Your Timeman woman time

This is the next topic on this list of ways to be irresistible to women, now this is a rule for women attraction but it’s also a rule you should live by nevertheless, if you want to keep everything around you productive and void of toxicity, you need to learn to value the most important thing you have as a human, and that is your time, why?

Your time is your presence, what you put your attention in, and in the end it’s what defines your life’s outcome, that’s why you should treat it carefully and with the utmost respect in general but even more carefully when you’re dealing with women. The reason being that women are attention-dependent, and by extent time-dependent, by your time to be exact.

They will leech on it and gradually lose respect for you and your time because you’re giving them your time like it’s a free currency of some sort, and they will feel entitled to it after a while, doing the opposite instead you make them understand that your time is important and has value because you use your time for meaningful things and that’s exactly when women will start respecting you because you respect your time this time around, and this will make them feel a certain (good) way about you, and they’ll learn to savor and appreciate the times where you’ll finally give them some of your attention and time because they now know that it’s important, respect yourself first and people will follow!

The Authentic Masculine Look & Its 4 Aesthetic Traits

Today I’m going to talk about the ideal masculine look in its physicality and appearance since I’ve already talked about what makes a true man in the character spectrum of the thing.

So what are the things that define a true manly, masculine appearance on a man? Let’s see them together.

Masculine Look, Muscles & Fat Percentagea good example of a masculine look

One thing that undoubtedly makes or breaks a man’s looks is his fat percentage, now, don’t start crying on me if you’re chubby and want to lose that fat so you can start to look like a true man (or woman) because I just solved your problems with my amazing Fitness Guide for dummies, so check it out if you need assistance with that. Why is that so though? well the reason is simple, the less fat you have on your body, the more your natural masculine traits will shine! 

Take your jawline as example, less overall body fat means a squared and well-defined jawline, or your abs! with less fat your stomach is flat and your abs will look more ripped, and we all know that dad bods ARE NOT sexy at all, right? then, the leaner you are, the more your veins will “pop out” and girls will love you, there are countless benefits related to looks when it comes to being a low fat individual.

Then there’s muscles, men were meant to be muscular and lean because they always engaged in demanding physical activities unlike their soft and gracious female counterparts, thus making it become the staple look of a healthy man. Being muscular will make you look more masculine, strong and attractive, your goal here is the V-taper kind of body, large shoulders, slim waist! come on, do you really think that a skinny guy with toothpicks as arms will be considered more masculine than a man who has his biceps looking like mighty guns? weakness is not a masculine trait.

Hair, Beards & Such

Ideally, another feature of a true masculine look is hair density, having flowing luscious hair and a rigorous beard (even body and chest hair!) is a sign of health and manliness, but not everyone is blessed with hair\beard genetics, in fact lots of men go bald or look like a baby trying to put on a beard with a permanent marker, yikes. Though this can somewhat be supported by changing your lifestyle into a more active, healthier one, so your testosterone levels will bump up and trigger some hair growth, not every man in the end will be able to be a burly hairy werewolf and that’s fine, work with what you have, that’s the best way of going about things.

The Smile

Okay, but what about his smile? the masculine look bingo card wouldn’t be complete without this aspect of a man, is your smile weak, void of personality, awkward or even forced? that’s not very masculine. A “masculine smile” it’s usually very charismatic and enveloping, magnetic almost, I’ve included a man’s smile in this because it’s actually a very powerful signature of a man that conveys confidence and masculinity, when it comes to one’s looks it’s a way of proving how comfortable a man is with his expression of all he is through something simple as a smile.

Gaze, Eye Contact & Technicalities

This, like the smile, is one of the major things that characterize the masculine look, the eyes of a man. Believe it or not your eyes can communicate a whole lot of things, depending on how you use them, usually your average weak ass guy doesn’t take advantage of his eyes not because he doesn’t want to, but because he can’t.

You see, eyes and confidence are interlinked, a man who’s not confident and doesn’t feel enough of a man won’t be capable of maintaining eye contact with another person with confidence, for example, his stare will not communicate or arouse anything in another’s person psyche because it’s weak at its core thus wasting the potential of those eyes, a man who’s confident in his masculinity and himself instead will use his eyes accordingly by naturally maintaining eye contact when speaking to people, will let those eyes tell stories of magic and wisdom while keeping a veil of mystery upon it all, the latter are the kind of eyes that when people look into them see the universe and will keep them wondering about the depth of this man, making them feel like they NEED to know what he’s thinking, is almost as though you can feel the “weight” of such eyes, and that’s very manly because your eyes can subconsciously communicate your essence to another.

As you can see the difference lays in how the bearer of such looks utilize them also, not just in the looks themselves, this should make you hopeful because some things you can’t change, but other you can improve. 

4 Masculine Things That Separate True Men From Boys

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Being a man is not easy—never has been, especially in today’s society when men are shunned upon for just being themselves and displaying masculine traits, this of course acted as a deterrent and drew an increasing gap between men and men who acts like boys.

Today I will  give you 4 Masculine Things that define a man to know if you are a true man, or still a boy. And hopefully, if you are still a boy, you will implement these things in your life ASAP, there is no shame in growth after all.

Let’s see them together:

1) His Words Hold Meaning

A man, his word and his actions always go together and create the foundation of that beautiful thing called “coherence”. A man that stays true to his words and follows up with action after he spoke those words is a man that can be trusted and worthy of admiration since his word mean something, is packed full of MEANING.

Too many people these days say something, but they don’t really : mean it, think it, or do it. Their words are light like the wind, they’re empty, lack any intention and you could even not bother listening to them.

A man’s words instead have weight to them, you can’t ignore them because if you do so you will regret it, you wish you’d payed attention to words that really meant something later on the road, words with a purpose – meant to teach, warn or affirm important stuff. Words that are dear to your ears that will help you in the greatest of ways while at the same time hurting you, if you just happen to listen.

Now I don’t want to make this TOO poetic, but a real man’s words you really can’t enough of since they are true…and few things are still true in this world, that is why they must be held in high regard.

2) They Work Towards Something (Greater)

Have you ever heard of a true man that stood still for all the duration of his life? because I haven’t, and even if I did I probably won’t be remembering him. (And by “stood still” I mean that he always played it safe and didn’t bother put all of his being in something he believed in.)

Another example of masculine things that define a man is his willingness to ACT. A true man has a chief aim in his sights at all times and spends most of his life trying to achieve whatever that aim, that purpose is – it’s a symbiotic relationship, the one between a true man and his purpose.

They give life to each other, as it should be, it’s a burning flame that can either incinerate said man or fill him up with ENDLESS passion and newfound willpower, and it’s exactly this risk that the man takes at all times while trying to realize his ambition that defines him as a true man.

3) He’s Unafraid To Be Himself

Another entry on our masculine things list of what defines a man is that too many men these days live in constant fear caused by their unwillingness to show their “true colors”, fearing other’s (men usually, but women too) judgement, cowering at the thought of being discarded by his group of friends or even society because his personality does not align with his peers.

And let me tell you: this self-sabotaging paranoia is the death of what could’ve been a true man.

Because while a boy does the unthinkable to prove others that he can be a good fit in their group while often using self-damaging methods (i.e. becoming the clown of the group, faking some if not all aspects of his personality, ecc…) a true man instead has no use for this trickery, the reason being that he’s comfortable in his own skin and he’s proud of who he is and has NO need for masquerades and bonds forged by the urgency and convenience spurred by the fear of being left alone or cut-off. Keep in mind that this behavior can be adapted by women as well.

A true man embodies his principles and his values during the span of his life and shows them through his personality, whether people accept them or not, the true man is not fazed one bit because this is who he is and is not afraid, unlike the boy, to “beat his chest” and radiate that special aura that tells others that what they’re seeing is his genuine self.

In fewer words…

A true man, is authentic and proud of all he is.

4) Is, Simply, Strong.

This might be THE MOST important point of them all.

I’ve already stated in the past the importance of strength for a man, this testosterone based energy is pivotal in the development of said man, so that’s exactly why it HAS to be on this list of masculine things, after all, strength is very manly, it’s at the base of what it means to be a true man.

And the reason is simple: a weak man is still a boy at his core.

A true man is not only physically strong and fit, mental strength is another important side that factors in and that can’t be ignored. Strength is the ESSENCE that fuels a man’s growth until the day that he dies, a man who lacks strength is powerless and can be effortlessly swayed around by life and people who seek to take advantage of him.

A man without strength cannot possibly have within him those amazing qualities that we’ve discussed previously, because strength acts as a glue that holds it all together, without it they’ll surely crumble.

Now, physical strength is the precursor of mental strength, and every respectable man should be able to exert whatever amount of strength needed to protect those dear to him, destroy his enemies and maintain an honorable existence.

Thing is…not every man is naturally born strong, and it’s OK. We’re a work in progress after all and we need to learn things along the way, but that does NOT mean that just a few men can become strong, no.

The potential to strength lies deep within EVERY. SINGLE. MAN.  No exception made, it’s the duty of a man to make the best out of that divine potential that has been bestowed upon him and sharpen it so good things can came forth out of it, and to not waste it. If you’re a man (or damn, a lady too!) and want to truly take the first step to become stronger then I’ve got you covered with my amazing Fitness Guide For Dummies that will assist you into making a better version of yourself, by building strength, losing fat and shape you into an healthier individual overall…without the need of having a degree in rocket science in order to understand it and see results, you won’t even need a gym since all the exercises are bodyweight, check it out!

But the bottom line is that boys who don’t become strong have a linear, predictable fate: they end up not fighting their battles, and instead they resort to underhanded schemes and deception in order to attain what they seek. This is a sign of a weak, immature man that uses “weapons” that should be exclusive to naturally weaker individuals like women, so you can see why you can’t define a man who lacks strength, a “true man”.

And that’s exactly the reason why in antiquity young boys were forced to undergo a rite of passage, a test of some sort if you will, usually handed by the elders of the community in order to get their strength and their will tested, but today there’s nothing of the sort in society, so as men we must arm ourselves with whatever means available that builds strength and character.

So, can you recognize yourself in some, or all of these masculine things\traits that a true man has? If not, how do you plan on improving yourself?

Remember, a man cannot simply “be” , instead he must build himself in every aspect, so don’t feel too down if you’re not yet one, but instead work hard towards becoming a man you can be proud of.

Let me know if I can help you with something, and tell me in the comments what you think of the article


Take care