6 Effective Ways To Find Success Faster (Without Relying On Luck)

Success, unlike the majority of people believes- it’s not created by blind luck, instead- success it’s the result of a series of (usually good) decisions that compound together. More specifically, these decisions are also heavily “sticked to” habits that one might have imposed on itself, in order to succeed. Here’s some:

1. STOP PARTYING EVERY WEEKEND

How your liver will look if you keep partying every freaking week.

This may seem obvious, but isn’t to some. How’s your future supposed to benefit from you getting wasted? It doesn’t – it makes you unhealthy, pitiful and WEAK.

Ditch the booze, it’s not helping you. You’ll thank me once you don’t even have a drop of alcohol in your body.

2. STOP PROCRASTINATING/PLAYING VIDEOGAMES.

I’m guilty of this, too.

Listen, i love videogames – but you have to realize that you’re losing 8 hours a day “working” towards nothingness.

How come you can focus for that much time while leveling up your character on World Of Warcraft, and then when it comes to doing something that can actually put you in a better position (Working out, building that business, finishing that paper ecc…) you get flustered within the first 3 minutes? I mean, what the hell.

And that applies to mindlessly scrolling through social media\Youtube – too. What are you, a drug addict? you don’t need to check that fucking stuff so much, Twice a day it’s enough – START FOCUSING, TIME DOESN’T COME BACK.

3. IGNORE THE USELESS.

Haters,
Who doesn’t believe in you,
Negativity,
The News,
Porn, (that can count as procrastinating)
People who talk the talk but haven’t walked the walk,
Who no longer serves anything in your life,
What society says.

4. PUT YOURSELF SO SUCCESS CAN FIND YOU.

Do nothing and you will get nothing.

In order to success to find you, you need to put yourself between OPPORTUNITIES – that means that you have to recognize, analyze and then take chances that are presented to you- make some dust, create connections with people, take that job if you think you can use it as a stepping stone, do something you didn’t think you could do or that you deem “out of reach” or out of your capabilities.

You see money flowing from somewhere? JUMP INTO THE STREAM, and see how you can gain from it.

What i’m trying to say it’s that you have to be action-oriented. Because by doing, something always come back – Every action causes a reaction.

5. STOP CHASING WOMEN.

This is aimed more towards men, but it can be generalized, and it’s pretty self explanatory.

Instead of losing time chasing women and what’s between their legs, focus on your passion, your purpose – your life.

Fix it, because as you are now you’re not ready to get in a relationship, you’ll get your heart broken without understanding why, and you really don’t have that kind of time, do you? you’ll see that as the more you build yourself, women will come by themselves, and not some low quality ones that go sleep around with everyone.

And the more important lesson from this is : MORE TIME FOR YOU TO BUILD YOURSELF.

6. DO THE OPPOSITE.

Of what everyone does, because you will not achieve success by doing what everyone else is doing.

You HAVE to be the exception, the 1% – because success it’s not found in “being normal”, success only follows the extraordinary, the ones who dare to shoot not for the Moon, but for Saturn.


Innovate. Make the old obsolete by building something new. Concentrate on your strengths while polishing your weaknesses.

Because by doing what the majority does, you will achieve that majority’s results.

If you liked this post please tell me what you think about it, and what are some other ways you are finding working for you.

Take care.

Blogging & Persistence : A Love Story From A Beginner’s POV

Hello there! I hope life is treating you well.

This is an appreciation post, so i can show people that being consistent can take you a long way- and you should really stop being lazy when trying to achieve stuff.

I’ve started blogging this summer, basically – and February was my most “successful” month yet! isn’t that amazing?

Views, interactions and visitors keep on going up.

And that shows that publishing EVERY week since then was of utmost importance.

Sure, my numbers are nothing special when compared to other’s bloggers, but i’m happy nonetheless.

Why? Because i’m seeing results.

Me being disciplined and CONSISTENT it’s paying off.

I understand that mine it’s a difficult niche to be in, since it’s not very “trendy” – so that’s the more reason to be happy with the results.

I’ve found amazing bloggers along the way that i feel i need to share here with you all – go follow them, they make GREAT content:

Pooja! : https://lifesfinewhine.com/
V, The “other” me: https://millenniallifecrisis.org/
Christian, The blog master : https://artofblogging.net/

These are some of my inspirations when it comes to blogging.

Then again, if you follow me you might have noticed that i’m a very direct guy, maybe too direct, at times.

But that’s because that’s who i am AND with my mighty articles i WANT you to feel like how i feel when i talk about something.

The aim i had when creating this blog was to keep everything REAL.

So you can actually use and apply the things i preach about.
I don’t think that sugarcoated information would benefit anyone.

…I got off track right there.
Like i was saying:

Results didn’t come all at once. Visits and interactions started off as “little bricks” slowly piling up on each other.

BUT HEY, don’t get me wrong, i still get a dozen of views a day – like i said, my numbers are nothing special, but are special to me.

Because it means that there’s people who are interested in this kind of content, even if they’re not too many.

I’m not an expert at blogging by any means, but i feel that if you’re having people who vibe and resonate with the content you put out…

That sounds like a very good starting point to me.

But don’t get me wrong, my first goal is to get MINIMUM 1 MILLION VIEWS A MONTH.

I’M A VERY AMBITIOUS MAN. AND EVEN IF IT’S GOING TO TAKE YEARS, I WILL NOT GIVE UP.

And you shouldn’t give up too, even if your goals aren’t as ambitious as mine.

Now, i have a lot in the oven cooking- and lately i’m not feeling 101% satisfied about the quality of the articles i’m producing, i KNOW i can do better.

Stay tuned because i’ve got really amazing stuff FOR YOU coming YOUR WAY.

Keep working hard and results WILL come.

And as always,

Take care.

How A Simple Act Of Kindness Can Open The Door To Outstanding Success.

Most people forget that before you are given ANYTHING in life, be it money, peace of mind, love, attention ecc…

You have to give first.

There’s no such thing at something for nothing.

Some examples:
Before you can have money you have to provide value.
Before to be loved, you have to love.
Before to be understood, you have to understand.
Before you take, you must give.

In the end it all boils down to be… selfless,
Kind.

Doing things for an higher good, just to shed light on people’s lives. Without agendas, without any scruples.

And that is difficult.

That’s why you see a lot of people NOT getting what they want, because they can’t even do this.

How are you supposed to be given anything with such a selfish mindset?

That’s when & how the universe WILL recognize that you’re “worthy” of things such as success and positivity – and it will be sending this good your way.

BUT ONLY,

When you have given, first.

Everything Wrong With Your Excuses.

Shifting the blame. “It’s not my fault” – putting blocks in everything YOU THINK you should do, but won’t.

Thing is, you can’t go through life hoping someone will fix everything wrong with you.

They don’t give a s**t.

And if YOU don’t care enough about yourself what makes you think that others will?

Taking responsability for one’s situation it’s the FIRST STEP towards changing that situation.

What’s wrong with most of you it’s that you have an adult’s body but you act like a child.

Undisciplined.
Lazy.
Shifting blame for your situation.
Weak.

STRENGTH brings positive changes – develop it, otherwise your life can’t change.

Growth Is Found Where You Least Expect it.

Growing it’s an unavoidable part of all human beings, and even other creatures. Someone though might find itself not being able to make progress, constantly playing the same tune all over again for all its life.

Whether it’s because of past events that triggered fear and forged the bad habit to stick with what’s familiar – or be it the complete absence of the desire to do so, it’s known that it’s not unusual to find that spark while traversing pain and hardships, since they’re the best teachers you could find.

But growth can be experienced through other means, too.

While inspired,
Through simple anger,
By someone else’s words,

You name it.

We just need to know what we’re looking for, and why not- even stare intensely at something which we’d never though could teach us that something. Yes, that’s the hard part – because if we don’t know for sure that a thing could benefit us- we would never even consider it.

Heh.
Think about it: so many opportunities gone, just because you didn’t want to see them.
And don’t get it wrong, i’m guilty of it, too.

That’s why i think that being present and mindful when going through life could spare you countless headaches and regrets. You can start by simply REALLY listening to the ones you’re talking to, or to your body for example.

Actually PUT EFFORT in what you’re doing, in living – that’s the key.

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